I read a comment on one the pages saying that Kristen is only 22 and that people do stupid things at that age. As a 20 year old, I beg to differ. Yes, everyone makes mistakes and does stupid things, but where do you place that line when stupid things become a matter of moral decency? I really need to stress this point, because this was evidently not a mistake, this was a choice made by irresponsible people who do not value commitment. People tend to rationalize their choices as a mistake once consequences arise, and this is a prime example. And to make things worse, Rupert is married, with kids. Even as a 20 year old, I understand that any man in a relationship or married is OFF LIMITS. It’s sad that they are bombarded with so much scrutiny from the public and tabloids, but really, what goes around comes around. Fame comes with great responsibility, especially for Kristen who is placed as a role-model for younger girls. Also, it is not my say as to whether Rob or Sander’s wife should take them back, it is their decision at the end of the day. It’s a very hard decision on their part, but regardless, we the public should not be angry. After all, this is a private matter.

Something I want to clarify with everyone in relation to “forgiveness” is that forgiveness does not equate to reconciliation. Just because someone forgives you for their actions it does not mean that they won’t be held accountable and there won’t be consequences. Forgiveness is a process within you, not with the other person, unless reconciliation is involved. Forgiveness is a process of severing the emotional ties of the hurt and pain associated with the event, and you coming to a point where you can actually say: “You can no longer determine my destiny or happiness”. So people, if these relationships are truly over, it does not mean there’s no forgiveness. Just wanted to say that .